Amy Boucher Pye

Author: Amy Boucher Pye

  • “Prayerful Remembrance” by Kate Nicholas: 7 Ways to Pray blog series

    I appreciate Kate’s statement that we can move forward as we look back. In fact, one of the 7 ways to pray in my book is the prayer of examen – just that! Kate encourages us to chart out our soul’s stories in writing as an act of prayerful remembrance. I hope you’ll consider doing so. I agree with her that writing is a powerful and creative act that God can bless us in and through.

    ‘Memory is the scribe of the soul’ (Aristotle).

    There are many different ways to pray but one of the most ancient involves remembrance. Throughout the scripture, God’s people are told to look back and treasure their memories of how God has worked in the world on their behalf – in fact the exhortation to remember appears 130 times in the NIV translation of the Bible.

    In his final sermon before entering the Promised Land, Moses recounted the extraordinary acts of God on behalf of the Israelites and told the people to ‘ask about the former days’ (Deut. 4:32), reminding them that ‘you were shown these things so that you might know that the Lord is God’ (Deut. 4.35).

    God wants us to live in remembrance, which is why self-examination is central to our faith and the practice of prayer. The term ‘religion’ derives from the Latin word religio, which means careful consideration. A prayerful life is a considered life – one in which to look back and remember all that God has done for us.

    Prayerful remembrance is particularly powerful when we are facing tough times. When in fear for his life, David prayed, ‘I remember the days of long ago; I meditate on all your works and consider what your hands have done’ (Ps. 143.5). God wants us to look back to see where he has been at work in our lives, how his unseen hand has guided our trajectory, lifting us up even in the darkest moments.  

    In the midst of the messiness and challenges of life it can sometimes be hard to understand God’s purpose, but as Jesus told his disciples, ‘You do not realise now what I am doing, but later you will understand’ (John 13:7).

    The reality is that each of us has a ‘soul story’ – a unique story about the part of us that connects with and experiences God over our lives. This is a story that God wants us to understand because when we remember, we can begin to see our life narrative as a transformative adventure full of meaning and purpose. God wants us to look back in order to move forwards.

    He also wants us to share our soul stories. Throughout the Bible God’s people are encouraged to tell of all that God has done for us, and that still applies today. Speaking of the way that God has worked in our lives is a profound prayer of gratitude.

    This may sound a fairly daunting prospect but the Latin word vocare, which means to call, comes from the same root as vocalis, which means having or finding your voice. We are called to find our voice; to tell the story of how God has been at work in our lives to inspire and encourage others on their faith journey. This doesn’t mean we all have to be authors or evangelists – all God wants us to do is to share our experience of him with those around us and he will do the rest. 

    Kate Nicholas is an author, broadcaster and preacher. Her latest book is Soul’s Scribe – a guide to understanding and sharing your soul story. Find out more about her books, blog and online course, Write Your Soul Story, at her website.

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  • Preparing for Christmas

    The Advent and Christmas seasons will be here in seemingly the blink of an eye! If you think the season will be busy for you, why not get yourself a copy or two of Celebrating Christmas, a gorgeous book of my dad’s art with my reflections? Its short readings and beautiful paintings pack a lot of goodness in a small space. Great for gift-giving too.

    You can read the introduction and this first meditation in this sample, courtesy of BRF, my publisher. Here’s how to purchase.

  • “Prayer Journalling” by Vicki Cottingham: 7 Ways to Pray blog series

    I love hearing how God brings Scripture alive in the lives of his people, and appreciate Vicki sharing her experience of Bible journalling and how through it God revealed an area of lack in her life. I trust you too will find encouragement here. How could you journal with the Bible today?

    My son and daughter, knowing how much I love reading God’s Word and journalling or writing about it, gave me a wonderful gift for my birthday this summer. It was a set of Illuminated Scripture Journals (the Gospels). Opposite each printed text page is a page with lightly printed dots which provides space to engage creatively with God’s Word.

    These books have helped me slow down in my reading of scripture, meditate on it and write down my thoughts and prayers. They have really helped me to engage with scripture and connect with God as I hear him speak to me through his Word and as I respond to him.

    Let me share one example with you from Mark 10:35-52. God very clearly drew my attention to Jesus’ response to James and John (his disciples) and to Blind Bartimaeus. He responded to both their requests with the same words. “What do you want me to do for you?” I had never noticed this before. His response is not a judgemental one, or annoyance of being interrupted, but one showing his care and compassion for them.

    I had grown up in a family where money was always tight and as our resources were limited, I was always careful what I asked of my parents.

    I hadn’t realised I had taken this same mentality into my relationship with God. I realised that day as I read scripture, I had been reticent to ask God for things just as I was reticent to ask of things from my parents. I realised I didn’t like to ask God for things for myself because I didn’t want to be selfish. I thought I should be praying for others, rather than for myself. My belief was that it was OK to ask for my needs to be met but not bother him with things I would like to have.

    I had somehow overlooked the truth that God has unlimited resources and that he longs to bless us with everything that belongs to him. He is a good God and a loving Father who loves to give us good things.

    That morning, he asked the same question of me, “Vicki, what do you want me to do for you?”

    I was amazed by this; He was inviting me to ask him anything. I realised he was genuinely interested in what I would say and ask because he loves and cares for me.

    I became aware through scripture reading and journalling that just as the crowd tried to silence the blind man from presenting his request to Jesus, that things in my life try to silence me from presenting my requests to Jesus. The truth is, Jesus wants to know what our desires and requests are, and when they align with his will for us, he delights in meeting our requests. Sometimes in ways which are far better than we could ever have dreamed or imagined.

    The whole experience was very freeing for me. I enjoyed a precious time prayer journalling and having a relevant conversation with Jesus.

    If you enjoy prayer journalling, then I highly recommend these books to you. As I have used them, I have found my quiet time and prayer time with God have been rejuvenated. Prayer journalling is changing the way I converse with God, and I love that I have a written record of our times of communion.

    Vicki Cottingham is a blogger and self-published author and has written several devotional books. Her latest set of books are, “Pause in God’s Presence: Praying the Psalms Vol 1 & 2”. All her books are available from Amazon or directly from her. For more information on her and to read her devotional blogs and book reviews go to her website.

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  • Praying with a Painting: Blossoming like trees

    By Leo Boucher. Used with permission; all rights reserved.

    I’m happy to share this wonderful painting by my dad that I recently featured in my monthly newsletter. I love the movement and color as I imagine the trees clapping their hands, all worshiping God together, even as they prepare to hibernate for the winter. We all need times of rest and repair, moments to hunker down and be still.

    Why not take a few moments to ponder this passage of Scripture and take in the beauty of the painting or something beautiful around you?

    He took one of the seedlings of the land and put it in fertile soil. He planted it like a willow by abundant water, and it sprouted and became a low, spreading vine. Its branches turned toward him, but its roots remained under it. So it became a vine and produced branches and put out leafy boughs. Ezekiel 17:5–6


  • “Anytime Is Prayer Time” by Joy A. Mead: 7 Ways to Pray blog series

    So encouraging to read Joy’s reflections on her early-parenting years and how God met her through them. She shares how she turned the mundane moments of sweeping up the breakfast crumbs into a time of communion with God. Whatever your season of life, I think you’ll be inspired.

    Reflecting back to my time as a stay-at-home mother of two young children under the age of five, I recall hardly having a moment to myself. Those equally beautiful and challenging years of day-in, day-out, around-the-clock childcare made it difficult to have an uninterrupted cup of tea, let alone a proper quiet time with God! And it was in that stretching season of my life, where realistically there was no way of keeping to a consistent moment with God, that I encountered Him in a very tangible and practical way. 

    I remember feeling looked after and guided by the Holy Spirit while I swept crumbs from underneath the table before the next mealtime and prepared endless dinners and snacks. Comforting my three-year-old daughter after a bad dream and nursing my baby son in the middle of the night, I could sense that God’s presence was right there with me. Or when I was up early sorting the dishes and preparing breakfast, it’s as if God was opening my eyes to see that there wasn’t a legalistic right or wrong time to pray. Any moment, great or small could be used as an opportunity to speak with God, invite Him into my days, seek His wisdom, and share my heart.

    I started inviting Him more and more into my everyday happenings—finding that at the core of prayer is a person’s heart and willingness to share freely with God Almighty. We, by our very design, are created to be in relationship with God the Father, made possible through Jesus the Son, and connected through the Holy Spirit. 

    For me, anytime is now prayer time—every moment I can be in communion with God is time well spent. From praying as I drive the children to school to singing worship songs as I put on a load of laundry, from appreciating nature in the garden to going grocery shopping, there are so many little moments that we can share with God throughout our days. Nothing is too insignificant for Him, and because of Jesus, we should confidently approach His throne (Heb 4:16) just like children run straight to their parents when something is needed. 

    My prayers can sometimes be lengthy, but often, they are an accumulation of short sentences dispersed throughout my day’s activities. Whether you are able to have a regular morning quiet time or perhaps your prayers are “on the go,” let us creatively welcome any and every moment as an opportunity to grow in our relationship with God, seek His will in our lives, and embrace His answers with open eyes, minds, and hearts. 

    “Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.” Hebrews 4:16 NIV

    Joy A. Mead is a Jesus-loving, American mother living in the United Kingdom with her British husband and their two wonderful children, a daughter and a son. She passionately encourages mothers to persevere and be intentional in their role, grow closer to God through their journeys of motherhood, and to seek Jesus in their everyday living through writing on her blog. Her first book, Taking Care of Mama will be released in Spring 2023 at Wipf and Stock Publishers. Connect with her on her website.

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  • “Enjoying the Waiting Room” by Ruthann Yeaton: 7 Ways to Pray blog series

    I’ve appreciated getting to know Ruthann recently and have been moved and inspired by how she is negotiating life after the death of her husband. Her prayer life is blossoming and she’s feeling God’s nearness. I think you’ll be inspired too!

    I have been journaling my journey as a widow since the passing of my husband, Norman. Our marriage was nearly 40 years. We were good friends, and our ongoing conversations were about anything that needed words: family, his illness and all the details that go into years of the stressors of care, finances, travel to doctors and more. As Norman’s illness intensified, our conversations were of things one considers as life races toward physical death. Of course, we talked of our relationship and of our relationship to God, both as individuals and as a couple. And how I would get along without Norman.

    When he passed, I began to frequently read Our Daily Bread as a midday pick-me-up and an affirmation of God’s love and presence. The two questions following the daily text reading most often needed more than a quick response. So I began writing down my thoughts and responses to these questions, sometimes enjoying a smile as I knew how Norman would have added to my own thoughts, or argued for one of his to be included!

    What began as an Our Daily Bread “go-along” became more complex. My little sticky notes and backs of envelopes became a real, daily journal. Each day, I write down things I am thankful for, maybe some random thoughts or feelings of grief, a verse that speaks to something I am working through, or a reminder that I am God’s work in progress. And of course, my answers to the Our Daily Bread questions.

    And there is a prayer list. I like this written reminder of those who need prayer (including me!) and it is joyful to write down God’s responses and answers to the prayers. The waiting room can be crowded sometimes, but as I’m waiting for God’s response or plan, I’m amazed at the others I meet who are sharing that room. And what’s more amazing is when someone asks me to pray for them—what an honor! And onto the list they go! There are so many resolutions: a baby born premature, yet surprising doctors who expected him to be in the hospital far longer; a life-long friend whose husband deals with much physical pain, yet perseveres and remains joyful and hopeful, knowing the love his friends hold as they pray for this pain—knowing that God is listening; or my prayer for help with my own loneliness that brought a new friend into my life. It is so humbling, yet powerful, to thank God for his answers to an item on this list.

    All of this started with my need to bring sustenance to my life following the loss of my husband and best friend. But as I write in this journal, it is so much more. There are times when I can “hear” my husband’s response to the questions, and that memory becomes a journaled reminder of our marriage and the discussions—agree or not—that filled our days and years. Perhaps, at first, this journal was a way to continue the conversations with Norman? I can’t answer that, but I have my suspicions! I do know these Our Daily Bread readings and journaling have helped me grow as a widow with purpose and determination to thankfully receive God’s blessings—and share them—as I learn how to live this new life.

    Ruthann Yeaton is a retired widow reinventing her life after years as an insurance-providing breadwinner and then caretaker. Her life is simpler now, yet busy with friends she missed, new friends, my adult children and a new grandchild. She lives in a huge old house, and spends some of her time working on the “downsize,” although that is not always the best way to enjoy one’s hours! Her daily walks are perfect times to pray, sing (really, you don’t want to hear that, but the cornfields don’t seem to mind), and admire the beautiful colors of midwestern farm country. Way back in the day, she studied Art; now she studies the Art of God’s masterpiece, and it is remarkable in the visual changes, the music of nature, the smells of a field of clover, the play of light on snow.

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  • Praying with a Painting: Blessing the land

    By Leo Boucher. Used with permission; all rights reserved.

    We’ve enjoyed some beautiful sunsets and sunrises lately, which this wonderful painting of my dad’s evokes in my mind. This scene makes me think of visiting the farms of my relatives from both sides in the Midwest. I appreciated the wide-open spaces, the cats running around the barn, the rows of corn ready to be detassled and harvested.

    Why not pray for farmers today, and all who work the land? You could meditate on this passage from Deuteronomy 28 (NIV) as you do so (see especially verses 8 and 11):

    1 If you fully obey the Lord your God and carefully follow all his commands I give you today, the Lord your God will set you high above all the nations on earth. 2 All these blessings will come on you and accompany you if you obey the Lord your God:

    3 You will be blessed in the city and blessed in the country.

    4 The fruit of your womb will be blessed, and the crops of your land and the young of your livestock—the calves of your herds and the lambs of your flocks.

    5 Your basket and your kneading trough will be blessed.

    6 You will be blessed when you come in and blessed when you go out.

    7 The Lord will grant that the enemies who rise up against you will be defeated before you. They will come at you from one direction but flee from you in seven.

    8 The Lord will send a blessing on your barns and on everything you put your hand to. The Lord your God will bless you in the land he is giving you.

    9 The Lord will establish you as his holy people, as he promised you on oath, if you keep the commands of the Lord your God and walk in obedience to him. 10 Then all the peoples on earth will see that you are called by the name of the Lord, and they will fear you. 11 The Lord will grant you abundant prosperity—in the fruit of your womb, the young of your livestock and the crops of your ground—in the land he swore to your ancestors to give you.

    12 The Lord will open the heavens, the storehouse of his bounty, to send rain on your land in season and to bless all the work of your hands. You will lend to many nations but will borrow from none. 13 The Lord will make you the head, not the tail. If you pay attention to the commands of the Lord your God that I give you this day and carefully follow them, you will always be at the top, never at the bottom. 14 Do not turn aside from any of the commands I give you today, to the right or to the left, following other gods and serving them.


  • “The Change Gratitude Brings” by Teresa O’Driscoll: 7 Ways to Pray blog series

    How gratitude can lead to change and intimacy with God… I love Teresa’s account of this simple but profound practice, which has led to transformation in her life. How might you incorporate giving thanks into your morning routine?

    Many years ago, after reading yet another of those news reports where, after a near-death experience, someone found a new appreciation of life, I decided to follow their example of appreciation – thankfully without the trauma! That began by expressing gratitude to God, first of all, for waking up; for the gift of a new day. I have shared the following short routine in my workshops, articles, and in my new prayer guide, Pray Then Listen, A heart-to heart with God.

    Hands and Thanks

    As soon as you wake up speak to God, saying, “Thank You, dear Lord, for the gift of this new day.”

    Open your eyes, brush one hand over the other. Then say something like this: “Thank You, dear heavenly Father, that I can still see, feel, and move, and for all the other workings of my body.” 

    This simple routine brought a huge benefit to my life as in doing this I had begun to make Christ the foundation of my day. Following on from that, the natural progression was to invite Him to share my day. Every part of it. That meant that, on top of my formal prayers, I began to speak to God informally too. If I had a challenge to face – I asked for His help. A task to carry out, as it twisted and turned – I asked His advice. Saw something beautiful in nature – I praised Him. Working as a journalist – I specifically asked His help with my writing. And so on so on.

    All of this had also moved me into the two-way street of prayer. Instead of using God as a sort of sounding board, I was talking to Him from my heart and then expectantly listening and watching for His answers. My life has been enriched beyond measure.

    When I began to read Amy’s 7 Ways to Pray, Time-tested practices for encountering God I recognized a fellow practitioner of this way to live. I could identify with much of her walk with Christ. The specifics of her life were very different to mine but her life’s journey led to the same place: that wondrous close relationship with our Living Lord. For this reason, I love Amy’s book! With the Bible as the hub I enjoy being refreshed by authentic, well-written, books such as hers which show us how to draw ever-closer to our Maker.

    On my own path I realized some time ago that, in the way I now lived, I was actually edging towards that high goal of continuous prayer highlighted by St Paul: “Rejoice always, pray constantly, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” 1 Thessalonians 5:16-17.

    All this began by simple gratitude for each new day.

    Teresa O’Driscoll, born and raised in Cardiff, Wales, spent many years working as a journalist in Athens, Greece. Now back in her native city she writes books, articles and blogs, and runs writing and spiritual / self-development workshops. Her latest book, Pray Then Listen, A heart-to-heart with God is published by Circle Books. Visit her at her website.

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  • Praying with a Painting: Embracing the season you’re in

    By Leo Boucher. Used with permission; all rights reserved.

    My daughter loves autumn. She doesn’t enjoy heat and doesn’t love the beach like I do, so for her, the changing leaves don’t instill in her a sense of dread. I used to love fall with the gorgeous colors especially in the upper Midwest in the States, but now autumn for me means shorter and shorter days and the bone-chilling cold that the damp atmosphere of England can bring.

    What does this season mean to you? How could you offer all of your feelings about it to God? Perhaps today you might want to take a walk, taking in the sights and sounds around you, asking God to reveal himself to you as you do. What might he be welcoming you to relinquish in this season?

    For my friends in the Southern hemisphere, what things might God be awakening in you as you enter Spring?

    You could also take some time to pray with this lovely painting by my dad. Let your eye move around it, asking God to lead you in prayer. You might want to ponder a passage of Scripture as you do so, such as one of these:

    But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own (Matthew 6:33–34, NIV).

    In [God’s] hand is the life of every creature and the breath of all mankind (Job 12:10, NIV).


  • “Walking with God” by Jean Gibson: 7 Ways to Pray blog series

    I’ve had the absolute delight of walking by the sea near to where Jean lives; I can only imagine what that must feel like as one’s daily walk. We can’t all live close to the sound of crashing waves or the gentle lapping of water, but we can all walk with God. As you take a few moments to read and ponder, why not set aside some time to enjoy God’s presence?

    As a child, I grew up by the seaside, on the beautiful north coast of Ireland. Some of my early memories include long walks on the beach, frequently with my favourite aunt, as we talked together and she pointed me to Jesus. As a young teenager I remember lying in the sandhills above the beach reading a book, feeling God’s presence as he spoke to me through it.

    Having lived in various situations around the world, these days I live by the seaside once more. And it’s there that I still experience my closest moments to God.

    In 7 Ways to Pray Amy talks about ‘practising the presence of God’ as Brother Lawrence described it. This lay monk has always struck a chord in my heart. Brother Lawrence practised God’s presence while working in the kitchen, and I do a bit of that too, but for me walking along the coast has always brought me close to God. I think of the reference to Enoch in Genesis 5: 24, ’Enoch walked with God.’ In Luke 24:15 we read of the two walking to Emmaus when ‘Jesus himself came up and walked along with them.’ I love that idea of walking with God as I physically take my daily walk.

    2 minutes of pondering God our Rock on the South Coast of England with Amy

    Walking along the coast, in awe at the changing colours of the sky and its reflection in the sea, my heart lifts in praise to the Creator of such beauty. On a windy day when I am struggling to keep upright, the rigging on the yachts rattling in the harbour, the waves crashing against the rocks and the gulls calling out in joy, I am reminded of his almighty power. And on a quieter day I sit on a rock, bathed in the warmth of God’s love, soothed by the gentle lapping of water on the shore, feeling God’s peace settling on my heart, hearing his ‘still small voice.’ It is in these moments above all that I feel God’s nearness, as my thoughts are stilled and focused on him and a sense of calm displaces my anxieties and concerns.

    At such times, words are not always necessary. Amy quotes Brother Lawrence, ‘My prayers are nothing other than a sense of the presence of God.’ Sometimes being aware of God’s presence takes us beyond words. For me, these occasions often happen when I’m outside in nature, aware of God’s creation around me. For you it may be different.

    Not all of us live by the seaside. Not all of us can easily walk, or be, in a beautiful place. Perhaps like Brother Lawrence most of your day is taken up in mundane tasks, in a repetitive job, in caring for others. But wherever we are, God is there. Can I encourage you today to be intentional about ‘practising God’s presence’? Find your special place where God feels near and make yourself available to him there.

    The two on the road to Emmaus urged him strongly, ‘Stay with us.’ Then their eyes were opened and they recognised him.

    (Luke 24)

    Having worked in theological education in Kenya and the Christian charity Care for the Family in Ireland, Jean Gibson enjoys sharing the stories of people who inspire her. Her books include Seasons of Womanhood, Journey of Hope and An Open Door. Details can be found on her website.

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