Category: Christian life

  • Remembering Rob Lacey

    Rob with his lovely colleague Elin Kelly, signing books at Spring Harvest, 2004

    Today marks 20 years since the death of Rob Lacey – the performer, author of the word on the street, and all around great guy. I mark the occasion sharing the article I wrote after his death in the then Christian publishing trade magazine, Christian Marketplace:

    I’ll always remember May Day, not for ribbons and maypoles but because it’s the day that Rob Lacey died following his ten-year off-and-on battle with cancer. I’m joined by people all over the world who are mourning the earthly loss of this amazing performing artist and author who was a deeply loved husband, father, son, brother and friend.

    I first met Rob in 1999 when I had just started at HarperCollins and he came seeking a publisher for his idea related to Romans in a cockney slang. That didn’t sound like a winner, but after discussion we came to the idea of Rob ‘translating’ the best bits of the Bible into the language of the street. And so the street bible, which was later named the word on the street, was born. Or at least it would have been if Rob had traveled the usual publishing road.

    Just as we commissioned Rob to write the book in March 2000 came the dreaded diagnosis of a recurrence of cancer (he had been treated for cancer of the bladder in 1996 and had been given the all clear). Even with the C word hanging over him, he threw himself into the monumental task, starting with Job for inspiration. For the next sixteen months he wrote while battling the horrible disease, enduring radiotherapy and chemotherapy. But in December 2001 the doctors told Rob’s family that they had better say their goodbyes.

    Our God is full of surprises, and over the next year and a half he brought Rob back from the brink of death and cleared his body of cancer. We rejoiced and celebrated the amazing news. Rob was healed! Alleluia! The medics were stunned, even calling it a miracle. One who had nearly died had been brought back to life. His wife would have a husband; his son would have a father; and the world would have an amazing communicator to tell of God’s love and grace.

    Rob went on to finish the word on the street, which was published by Zondervan just in time for Spring Harvest 2003. Following hisperformances there it was an instant hit. People wrote in saying that it was ‘out of this world’, ‘awesome’ and ‘fantastic’. The Bible was coming alive for those who had read it too much and for those who had never encountered it. To God be the glory.

    Fast forward to late 2005. My job with Zondervan had just been eliminated, but the upside was that I now had the time to edit Rob’s new book The Liberator, a fantastic harmony of Matthew, Mark and Luke in his street language. And then the joyous news that Rob and Sandra were expecting their second child – wow and hooray! But then Rob’s email with the gut-wrenching news that the cancer was back. We all were shattered. Oh Lord, why?

    For anyone in our business, and especially for me as his editor, Rob was a dream author. Creative, funny – and his books sold by the boatload. Even when he was frustrated he was still gracious. He was always funny, and I would hoot with laughter during our phone calls, whether we were discussing swear words, his latest show, or the phrasing of Jesus’ commands. We were both chuffed to be paid to write and edit the Bible – how cool is that?

    But of course Rob was so much more than an author, what some might think as a commodity who puts together a product to be packaged, marketed and sold. He was a flesh-and-blood human being who loved his family and friends, who followed the Creator as he brought forth words of life and grace into the lives of so many.

    So as we think about the life of Rob Lacey, perhaps we can take a minute to remember the flesh-and-blood people behind the books, music and films that we create, market and sell. Who are they? What sweat, blood and tears goes into the making of their projects? And as we think about the fragility of life, maybe we can take a moment to value the people we work with and those whom we love.

    Rob, in your words, halle-blinkin’-lujah anyway. We miss you desperately. We ache for and with Sandra and your children. We’re down here in a world of cancers and decay, but you have a new body that will never wear out. No doubt you are using it relentlessly to entertain Jesus and the angels. How we wish we could be watching that heavenly performance. You’re living out Psalm 30:11:

    You turned my tears to cheers,
    My moping, through coping and on into dancing.
    You made me take off my funeral gear,
    And suddenly vibrant colours appear.
    (the word on the street)

  • The Lord is my… Rest Giver: Personalizing Psalm 23

    The Lord is our Shepherd… we are his sheep.

    I love personalizing Psalm 23, and last week led this exercise at Launde Abbey – with these sheep in the background! Here’s the rendition I penned, which you might resonate with?

    The Lord is my rest giver, I embrace shalom.
          He makes me release my projects,
    he leads me to the restoring waters,
          he refreshes my soul and my body.
    He helps me clear my diary
          for my own good.
    Even though I trudge
          through the valley of overcommitment,
    I will not fret,
          for you are with me;
    your tools to say no,
          they help me.
    You prepare a feast before me
          with those whom I’ve disappointed.
    You shower me with your unfailing love;
          my heart overflows.
    Surely your gentle invitations will accompany me
          all the days of my life,
    and I’ll live with you
          forever.

    How might you apply this beloved Psalm in your life today?

  • He’s not here! A reading of John 20 at the Garden Tomb

    Christ is risen! He is risen indeed! Alleluia!

    I welcome you to join me and my husband, Nicholas Pye, celebrating the joy of Easter through a reading from John’s gospel. It details what happened that first Sunday when Jesus rose from the dead. Filmed on location at the Garden Tomb, Jerusalem, January 2023.

    You might also enjoy reading about the life-changing story of Charles Simeon one Easter morning in today’s Our Daily Bread.

    Enjoy this Resurrection Sunday!

  • Jesus’ hour – joining into the story

    As we move through the events of Holy Week, I invite you to enter into the “Gethsemane moment” in John’s gospel, from John 12. Some Greeks – simply meaning those who were not Jewish – appeared before several of the disciples and asked if they could see Jesus. This to Jesus signified that his hour had come, and he set his face to the cross.

    Here is the link to the video where I lead this prayer exercise, hosted by Coracle.

    This prayer exercise forms part of the online course that Waverley Abbey Trust produced on The Prayers of Jesus, complete with small-group guide.

    Let me know if you use this prayer exercise, and if you’re willing, how God met you. May entering the story of Jesus and his hour enrich your faith in him and your love for others.

  • Running Toward Us

    “Can you really not throw this away?” I say to my husband with irritation, holding up a crumpled piece of paper that I know, before I pick it up, is a list of groceries that he bought at the store. 

    He sighs and says he’ll try. Later I apologize for my grumpiness when it comes to those many shopping lists strewn around our home. I have tried to train myself to stop, apologize, and ask for forgiveness when I get annoyed or lose my temper with family members, often over the little things of life. Sometimes it’s easier to adhere to the “stopping” part of that cycle than at other times, even though after the fact I wish I could reel in my tongue sooner. 

    Can you recall a time you didn’t honor Christ in the day-to-day of life? Unfortunately, I could share several other stories! But a wonderful and freeing part of serving our forgiving God is how He runs toward us with grace and love. Though we fail, in the little moments of the day or the big ones, He offers us a fresh start, a clean slate. We’re His beloved—He doesn’t label us by our wrongdoings.

    The Beloved Daughter

    God running toward us, arms outstretched with love, is pictured in the well-known parable Jesus tells of the Prodigal Son (see Luke 15:11–31). Imagine a slice of this familiar story—with a twist—and see how your heart reacts: 

    [Read the rest over at the God Hears Her website and join in with this wonderful community]

  • Do you have a word for the year?

    Do you have a word for the year?

    For the last decade I’ve enjoyed choosing a word for the year instead of making New Year’s resolutions – amazing to think it’s been that many years. I’ve blogged about this topic a bit over the years if you’d like to read more, including how to discern your word with God.

    I haven’t yet settled on my word for 2024. I think it will have a “re” at the beginning – some of the words I’m playing with are renew, restore, rejuvenate, recover, rejoice. My word last year was “renew” – I’m wondering about renewing renew as my word, as a friend commented! Shifting the narrative from having failed at the word in 2023 to renewing its place in my life. Hmm.

    I’d love to hear your word, if you have one and feel able to share.

  • Praying Jesus’ prayer

    Jesus loved his friends, and taught them how to pray. This prayer may be so familiar to us that we skim over it, but we can slow down and ponder each phrase for encouragement, inspiration, and delight. Join me in the amazing ruins of Waverley Abbey, the first monastery in Britain, as I lead us through this prayer.

    This prayer exercise forms part of the online course that Waverley Abbey Trust produced on The Prayers of Jesus, complete with small-group guide.

    Let me know if you use this prayer exercise, and if you’re willing, how God met you. May praying the words Jesus prayed enrich your faith in him and love for others.

  • The Gift of a Prayer Shawl

    Amy in front of the fireplace at Penhurst Retreat Centre, wearing the beautiful blue and purple prayer shawl.
    The prayer shawl got its debut at Penhurst Retreat Centre.

    As the very grateful recipient of a prayer shawl from my lovely friend Liz Shields, who is part of the prayer shawl ministry at Liverpool Cathedral, I asked Liz to share about the weaving process. Yarn and warp and weft (and no I don’t really understand those terms), with the whole of the making soaked in prayer. I found her process fascinating!

    Do I think that a prayer shawl has a magical quality? No. But God delights in the “stuff” of creation – bread and wine, trees and water, milk and honey. In surprising and amazing ways he answers our prayers. The shawl can be a tangible reminder of his love and care.

    Here’s Liz:

    Liz with the finished creation!

    I have been making prayer shawls for about eight years now. It began after I read an article in a magazine about the spirituality of knitting. The prayer shawl ministry was mentioned and it gave their website. When I read more about it, I thought it was something I would love to be involved in. The website gave information about churches and other organizations that were involved with this ministry – most of these were in America, but there were some in the UK. Sadly, none were local to me. So, I decided to make a shawl anyway and give it to someone I knew. My gift was so well received, that I was encouraged to carry on.

    To begin with, my shawls were either knitted or crocheted. When I learnt to weave and my skills gradually improved, I started to weave shawls as well. There is something very mediative about weaving and praying!

    At the beginning of 2020, I learnt that Liverpool Cathedral were about to start this ministry, so I registered to join their team. It has been a wonderful blessing to me and a great privilege to be involved with this ministry at the Cathedral and to use my creative gifts in this way, holding people before God in prayer as I weave.

    Making Amy’s Shawl

    After I received a message from Amy on a social media channel about the shawls and scarves that I weave, I offered to weave a prayer shawl for her. As I am involved with the Prayer Shawl Ministry at Liverpool Cathedral, I was given permission to have it blessed at one of the Cathedral services.

    I checked with Amy what colours she would like in her shawl and what type of fibre she would prefer.

    Then I collected together some possible yarns and wove some samples. Sampling allows me to see how the colours work together, and also to decide which pattern to use.

    From those samples I chose Scheepjes Whirlette in the colourway Bubble for the warp and Scheepjes Whirl in colourway BrambleBerry for the weft.

    Now I am almost ready to begin but before I do, I turn to prayer and commit the project and Amy and myself to the Lord and ask His blessing on what I will make. Quite often a passage of Scripture will come to me, and I use that to write a prayer and then I use that prayer throughout my weaving. I also use prayers from a booklet that has been produced by Liverpool Cathedral for our Prayer Shawl Ministry team.

    The first task in weaving is to calculate the number of threads I will need and then to wind a warp on my warping board.

    For this project, I needed 198 threads. I usually count as I go along in multiples of 20. I always double check to make sure I have the correct number and then I place a marker around each group of 20.

    Once the warp is wound, and secured at various points, it’s ready to be taken off the warping board and chained.

    Now it’s time to ‘dress’ the loom which involves…

    …securing the warp on the back beam of the loom and spreading it out evenly;

    …threading the heddles. The heddles allow each thread to be raised in a particular pattern. If these are threaded wrongly, the pattern won’t work.

    ..threading the reed – which keeps the threads in position and maintains the correct width.

    The last part of ‘dressing’ the loom is to secure the warp on the front beam, making sure the tension is even across the width of the warp.

    The final preparation task is to wind the shuttles with the weft yarn and then the weaving can begin!

    Once I have woven a few inches, I secure the warp threads by hemstitching in groups of two. This ensures that the weaving won’t unravel when it’s taken off the loom.

    The first few rows of weaving are always exciting. As you begin to see the pattern emerging, you realize that all the hard work of warping has been worth it, and you know that you can settle down and enjoy the meditative rhythm of weaving and praying.

    When the desired length is reached, another row of hemstitching is done and then the warp threads are cut and I can wind the shawl off the front beam of the loom.

    I finish off the shawl by securing any ends on the back of the shawl, and then twist the fringe.

    The shawl is now ready to be taken to the Cathedral, to be labelled, gift-wrapped and then blessed.

    Amy’s shawl was blessed on Ascension Day at the High Altar of Liverpool Cathedral by one of the Cathedral Canons.

    You might find you are keen for a shawl too. You can find out more about the Prayer Shawl Ministry through this website. Also, Liz recommends that people approach their local church if they’re interested in receiving a shawl or having one blessed. Members of the clergy should be pleased to bless a shawl that someone had made, even if this specific ministry is not part of their church life.

  • The Lord is my. . .

    I continue to love personalizing Psalm 23, and this week as I’m at Penhurst Retreat Centre in the lovely English countryside, I’m enjoying seeing the sheep and lambs as I ponder the Lord as my Shepherd. I share in the video below, which I recorded while being in the Shepherd’s Hut at Penhurst, about how to adapt Psalm 23 to us today.

    On social media I welcomed hearing your renditions, and I’m delighted to share Caroline Lessiter’s lovely one: “The Lord is my Friend,” with permission.

    The Lord is my friend, therefore I lack no support.
        He makes me rest when I am tired; 
    He leads me to thin places 
        where I can take stock and be refreshed.
    He guides me when I am feeling lost,
        for His glory.
    
    Even though I may be deeply troubled 
        I fear nothing, 
    because You are at my side always.
        Your ever presence 
    comforts me.
    
    You hold out Your hands of love 
        and welcome me during my times of struggle.
    You wrap me in Your loving embrace 
        and I am filled with Your strength.
    Surely Your grace and mercy will be with me 
        for the rest of my life
    and I will live in my Father’s house 
        forever.
    
  • New Online Resource! The Prayers of Jesus

    Looking for resources for Lent? Last year we released an interactive small-group resource called The Prayers of Jesus, published by Waverley Abbey Resources, in which we explore 6 of the 7 prayers of Jesus in the gospels. It gives you the tools for leading the session, such as prayers, activities, background on the particular prayer of Jesus, discussion questions, and a prayer activity for the group.

    And this year we’ve put together an online resource for you! Here’s an introductory video.

    You can’t tell from the photo above, but I was shivering as we taped a lot of the course at the 1400 year old ruins of Waverley Abbey. It’s a gorgeous thin space, and made an amazing setting. But chilly and drizzly!

    The six sessions include:

    • Session introduction
    • Exploration of the prayer with Micha Jazz (these discussion are AMAZING and a huge added bonus!)
    • Prayer exercise
    • Closing comments

    You can use this course with your small group or on your own. You can register your interest here with Waverley Abbey; it should be available next week. I pray it will help you meet with Jesus!

    If you’d like to get copies of the small-group guide from me, here’s my discount plan:

    1-6 copies, 16% discount, £5 each plus postage
    7-9 copies, 21% discount £4.75 each plus postage
    10 or more, 25% discount, £4.50 each plus postage

    If you’re not in the UK, I’m happy to send it to you, but postage might be prohibitive.

    May praying the words Jesus prayed enrich your faith in him and love for others.