Author: Amy Boucher Pye

  • Books of 2025

    So many books… so little time – because of scrolling? We all fall prey to distractions and interruptions, don’t we. After being humbled in 2024 when I realized that I only read 22 books that year, I was more intentional in 2025, reading 43 books (but still down from the 60-something I used to read).

    One reason for adding to the list is the number of classic novels I listened to via the Sleepy Bookshelf app, in which Elizabeth the narrator puts on a welcoming and gentle voice and lolls you to sleep. I enjoyed The Enchanted April, Emma, The Secret Garden, and others because of this wonderful podcast. Highly recommend if you struggle to fall back asleep – and sleep headphones will help you stay quiet if you share a bed.

    In scanning the books I read, I see a lot of 2.5 and 3.5 starts out of 5. I won’t share those with you, but offer 5 fiction titles and 1 non-fiction for you to enjoy. In no particular order…

    The Maid’s Secret by Nita Prose

    Utterly delightful. This is the third in the Maid series, and I marvelled at how a third book could rival the first. But it does. In fact, I think it might even be better.

    There’s a back and forth timeswap aspect with Molly’s current mystery and her gran’s backstory. That’s all I’ll say as the uncovering of both work together wonderfully.

    I finished it last night with a pleased sigh of contentment. I’ve listened to all three, and the narrator does so well with the voices. Feels a familiar sound…

    I love that there’s never any mention of Molly’s neurodiversity, but as the reader/listener we figure it out. A massive ‘show, don’t tell’ by the author.

    The Names by Florence Knapp

    A fascinating novel, which traces the lives of a family through the naming of the son via three different names. It took me a bit to get into this format – I wondered how tiresome this might become – but soon was captivated (especially when I learned that the author jumped ahead in seven-year segments, which kept the story moving).

    Interesting to ponder how life can differ according to what name you’re given…

    TW: the novel refers to domestic abuse.

    This Must Be the Place by Maggie O’Farrell

    A stunning book with so many different first-person points of view, alternating by chapter. I’d start off the chapter with a new character wondering who in the world they were and how they would fit – suspense held, waiting to see…. It’s an effective device for keeping the reader’s interest. I really enjoyed the chapter at the back explaining how the author had been going through a building project while writing, and how the physical moving around of her space somehow unlocked a different level of creativity. Along with her toddler child removing, while she was writing, all of the post-it notes she had arranged with the novel’s structure. Which made her throw out the conventional ways novels appear, leading to her chapter of photos of items up for auction (which I didn’t think worked and wanted to skip over but I made myself read).

    Haunting, lyrical, engaging, lovely… everything you might hope for from a Maggie O’Farrell novel. I picked this up at a charity shop but it’s one I won’t part with right away. I read it too fast and will allow a slower, more luxurious read in a few years (including looking up the words I didn’t know the meaning of!).

    I recognize I haven’t said anything about the book itself – its characters, the plot, etc. It hops around from Ireland to the States to South America to England and in between, but she holds it all together around one main character… Intrigued? Read it!

    Wish You Well by David Baldacci

    An engaging novel, set in the late 1930s. What a change for the young children when their family suffers a car accident, killing their novelist father and putting their mother into a coma. They move to their grandmother’s home in the mountains of Virginia, a harsh location to exist in.

    I appreciated the emotional coming of age for Lou, the young daughter, as she and her younger brother leave New York City for a farming-in-Appalachia experience. Ups and downs and perhaps too tidy of an ending but I didn’t mind…

    Compelling writing. Love that it was based on oral storytelling within the author’s family.

    We All Want Impossible Things by Catherine Newman

    A wrenching story of friendship, charting the last months of lifelong friends as one succumbs to cancer. Full of highs and lows; the coping mechanisms of grief when the simply unfathomable becomes reality.

    I loved Ash, the protagonist, and Edie, in them seeing reflections of my own lifelong friendship with Kristen. The shared jokes over the decades; the way the friends see so many parts of each other – many that others miss.

    I loved nearly everything about this book. The only niggle was really big though, the idea that a mother who had devoted herself to her child could remove herself from him for the last weeks of her life. This pushed believability too much; I just couldn’t buy it.

    Other than that, a really lovely read. Five stars.

    Everything Sad Is Untrue: (A True Story) by Daniel Nayeri

    I so enjoyed listening to this book, especially because the author narrated it. I loved hearing his inflection on words – the way he said his home country, Iran, or how he voiced the words in Farsi. It’s an engaging account of his memories of leaving his beloved home and world as a young boy and becoming a refugee – one with a patchwork of memories. What is true? That’s a question he raises more than once, and it’s worth pondering in our own lives.

    His stories, whether in Oklahoma where they found refuge or in the land of honey and jasmine, captured me. Themes of home, identity, family, personhood, and hospitality abound, among others. There are, sadly, stories of domestic abuse too. Highly recommend.

  • Love on a plate – Christmas cookie recipes

    We’re so close to Christmas, but I’m only making my first batch of Christmas cookies today! That’s just been the state of our Advent. In searching through my online filing system, I came across this article that appeared in the 2014 Woman Alive December issue, with a few recipes of our favorites at Christmas. Complete with photos of the CutiePyeKids.

    For more recipes, and to hear about my sad first Christmas in England, check out the 10th anniversary edition of my first book, Still Finding Myself in Britain.

    I pray you have a joyous and blessed Christmas!

  • Finding Peace in Uncertain Times

    The worries, cares, and uncertainties we face in life can crowd out our peace. But what if we’ve misunderstood what God means by peace? Join me in encountering God and receiving his peace and comfort in this mini-retreat, filmed at sunset by the shores of Lake Josephine in Roseville, Minnesota. In doing so we’ll prayerfully engage with Isaiah 61:1–3. As you focus on the God of peace, he will fill you with his peace.

    Do feel free to stop the video and pause in prayer to receive from God.

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  • Prayerful reading of John 1

    Join me for a mini-retreat, with time to pause, reflect on Scriputre, and experience God? Here’s my latest prayer practice (of 7 minutes) that I sent out with my monthly newsletter, perfect for this season of Advent.

    We’ll be engaging with some lectio divina (prayerful reading) of the first part of John’s gospel (John 1:1–5, 9, 14, NIV). During the Advent season, it’s beneficial and meaningful to ponder Jesus, the true light who has come into the world.

    Feel free to pause the video at any point as you ponder and reflect with God.

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  • What is spiritual direction?

    So what is spiritual direction? We’ve inherited this term, and unfortunately, it may conjure up images of a somewhat scary authority figure telling another what to do. That’s not my desire or my way of working! A better name is spiritual accompaniment, which captures the role of one who seeks to notice God’s working in the life of another.

    In SD sessions, we examine the person’s relationship with God, how this relationship can flourish, and the directions God is inviting them into. I find it such a joy to hear how people notice God working in their lives and how they are responding to God’s invitations. Often they will have one main topic they’d like to explore in a session.

    With my desire to facilitate people encountering God, I offer an opening prayer exercise (such as one from my book 7 Ways to Pray). I give a choice between two or three different ones, as it can be interesting for the directee to notice how they react (including resistance). Of course, they don’t need to start off the session in this way; it’s completely up to them. I’ve found it joyful and encouraging to lead one person in a prayer exercise (in contrast to a group), learning and modifying over the years – such as inviting people to turn off their cameras for privacy, asking them to choose how long to be in silence instead of me moving them along after a set amount of time, and inviting them afterward if they want to share about the prayer time or to address another topic.

    Spiritual direction is about the slow but sure work of God. Hearing people notice how they are changing under the Spirit’s loving care brings me such joy. I count it a gift and privilege to walk with some of God’s beloved in this way.

    Want more?

    You might appreciate reading this short article on why spiritual direction matters to spiritual formation published by Coracle, with whom I’m associated as a SD. Wondering what the difference is between SD and other helping professions such as mentors, coaches, and counsellors? I recommend this article by Margot Eyring, who heads up the SDs at Coracle. I also recommend these 11 questions to consider asking a prospective spiritual director.

    Find out more about Amy from visiting her YouTube channel with prayer practices or on social media sites too. She also writes a monthly newsletter and has written seven books and numerous devotional articles.

  • The launch of Still Finding Myself in Britain!

    On this launch day for Still Finding Myself in Britain, I find myself unsettled and lonely for local friends. We moved a couple of months ago, and the house isn’t sorted yet and I don’t have a new gym or local connections.

    As I consider my needs, I remember how God has met me in the past, namely when I moved country! As I found myself in Britain, I found myself in God. Yes I made blunders and gaffes, but my new countrypeople accepted me, even while poking fun at me in a lovingly British way! And I learned more about who I am in God, how God has created me, and who I am becoming in him.

    God didn’t fail me before, and I believe he won’t now!

    How do you need God to meet your needs today? How can you find yourself in God?

    Find out more in the wonderful new tenth-anniversary edition of Still Finding Myself in Britain, with a fabulous new foreword by Paul Kerensa and published by Authentic Media.

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  • Why I haven’t shared about being a spiritual director

    Over the past four years, I’ve added a moniker to my biography – “spiritual director,” an old-fashioned term for someone who accompanies another on their journey with God. I’ve noticed recently that I don’t share about this work much. As I’ve pondered why, I’ve realized that the main reason is that my role feels hidden and precious. When people share deep and tender offerings during our sessions, I promise to hold their thoughts and feelings in confidence.* I also don’t name those with whom I meet to my family or friends, nor state on social media that I might know someone in this context. My guarding of their stories has seemed to seep into me not talking about being a spiritual director at all.

    Perhaps I’m extra careful about confidentiality because as a writer, I could be tempted to mine the stories I hear. In my introduction letter that I send to people enquiring about working together (although I’m currently fully booked), I state something that should go without saying but I feel needs to be spelled out:

    I promise never to write up anything that you talk about during our sessions. God is a God of abundance and for my writing I can find plenty of already-published stories to share.

    We don’t have to hold an official role as a spiritual director to prize confidentiality, of course. When a friend or family member shares vulnerably with us, we can treat that confidence as a wrapped gift, one meant to be opened only between them and us. And God can help us to keep our mouths closed, nudging us through the Holy Spirit when we’re tempted to share someone else’s problems or concerns under the banner of intercession or “keeping the body informed.” God is a God of respect and honor, and, being made in his image, we too can exude these qualities.

    How important is confidentiality to you?

    * I only would share in certain safeguarding situations. Also, when I meet for peer-group supervision or with my own spiritual director, I might give generalized details as I reflect upon the work and how it’s affecting me and my life with God.

  • Beloved of God retreat

    What does it mean to be God’s beloved? How do we view God, and how does God see us? We will spend time in the loving presence of God as we explore some spiritual practices that help us live as a new creation in Christ. These transformative encounters help us to live out our callings with joy and freedom.

    Join me on Saturday, October 4, for a time of communion with God and others.

    About this Retreat Series

    From the comfort of your home, join Coracle and me as we encounter God’s loving presence together in an online retreat. Each retreat will include a mixture of gentle teaching with generous spaces to encounter God and unpack your experiences with others. I’ll lead four retreats throughout 2025-26, and you can join one or all four, or any other combination. The timings all fall on a Saturday: 10am to 1pm for the East Coast, 7 to 10am on the West Coast, and 3 to 6pm for the UK.

    Upcoming (sign up on Coracle’s Upcoming Events page)

    December 13, 2025 – God with us

    Jesus with us is God in human form, Emmanuel. This mind-blowing reality has transformed all time, and those who believe in him. As we explore this mystical and down-to-earth truth of the God who became a baby and lived among us, we embrace his presence with us as we also prepare for his second coming.

    February 21, 2026 – Friendship with God

    Jesus loved his friends Mary, Martha, and Lazarus, and their home in Bethany was his second home. As we unpack the three gospel stories we explore action and contemplation, faith and doubt, despair and longing, resurrection and hope, sacrificial love and the meaning of home. Deepening our friendship with Jesus through these stories is fitting during Lent as their events pave the way for Jesus’ death and resurrection.

    June 6, 2026 – 3 ways to pray

    Our prayer lives can be rich and multifaceted. We’ll engage with three ways to pray, each rooted in ancient practices, that can give us fresh pathways to God. They are acknowledging the indwelling God through practicing God’s presence, prayerfully placing ourselves into a gospel story through our imaginations, and the prayer of examen. God loves to meet with us as we come to him.

    Coracle is a U.S. tax-exempt 501(c)(3) organization, supported by donor funding. We offer the majority of our programs as “By Donation” as we believe that finances should never be a barrier to anyone who wants to pursue God through the programs and resources we offer. There will be an option to select either “paid” or “free” tickets. Donor support makes offerings like these possible. If you feel led to invest in Coracle’s ministry above the cost of this offering, there will be an option to do so when you register. Thank you!.

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  • Praying with Jane Austen

    Did you know that Jane Austen was a devoted Christian? We have access to three of her prayers – those when she led the family prayers at night. Join me at Jane’s home in Chawton, Hampshire, England, with an adaptation of one of her inspiring and uplifting prayers. The images are all from the grounds at her final beloved home, where she was able to be most fruitful in her writing.

    You can find the three prayers in their original form here.

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  • “Walking with Friends” by Amy Scott Robinson

    On this International Friendship Day, I celebrate friendship by sharing a poem that was a gift for my birthday by a dear friend, Amy Scott Robinson. Amy and I and Tanya Marlow have met weekly for years, loving and supporting each other, and I frankly don’t know how I would do life without them! I loved receiving this gorgeous creation for my birthday, and I trust and pray that you will enjoy it as much as I do. (Sorry about the background noise – we were in a busy London restaurant!)

    Friendship is a gift from God, and our friendship with God is a gift that I wrote about in Transforming Love: How Friendship with Jesus Changes Us. Our friendship with Jesus strengthens our friendships with others. Something to celebrate, to be sure!

    Join me in watching the video:

    Explore friendship with Jesus in Transforming Love. Find it – including a free copy of the introduction and first chapter – here.