Tag: Rob Lacey

  • Remembering Rob Lacey

    Rob with his lovely colleague Elin Kelly, signing books at Spring Harvest, 2004

    Today marks 20 years since the death of Rob Lacey – the performer, author of the word on the street, and all around great guy. I mark the occasion sharing the article I wrote after his death in the then Christian publishing trade magazine, Christian Marketplace:

    I’ll always remember May Day, not for ribbons and maypoles but because it’s the day that Rob Lacey died following his ten-year off-and-on battle with cancer. I’m joined by people all over the world who are mourning the earthly loss of this amazing performing artist and author who was a deeply loved husband, father, son, brother and friend.

    I first met Rob in 1999 when I had just started at HarperCollins and he came seeking a publisher for his idea related to Romans in a cockney slang. That didn’t sound like a winner, but after discussion we came to the idea of Rob ‘translating’ the best bits of the Bible into the language of the street. And so the street bible, which was later named the word on the street, was born. Or at least it would have been if Rob had traveled the usual publishing road.

    Just as we commissioned Rob to write the book in March 2000 came the dreaded diagnosis of a recurrence of cancer (he had been treated for cancer of the bladder in 1996 and had been given the all clear). Even with the C word hanging over him, he threw himself into the monumental task, starting with Job for inspiration. For the next sixteen months he wrote while battling the horrible disease, enduring radiotherapy and chemotherapy. But in December 2001 the doctors told Rob’s family that they had better say their goodbyes.

    Our God is full of surprises, and over the next year and a half he brought Rob back from the brink of death and cleared his body of cancer. We rejoiced and celebrated the amazing news. Rob was healed! Alleluia! The medics were stunned, even calling it a miracle. One who had nearly died had been brought back to life. His wife would have a husband; his son would have a father; and the world would have an amazing communicator to tell of God’s love and grace.

    Rob went on to finish the word on the street, which was published by Zondervan just in time for Spring Harvest 2003. Following hisperformances there it was an instant hit. People wrote in saying that it was ‘out of this world’, ‘awesome’ and ‘fantastic’. The Bible was coming alive for those who had read it too much and for those who had never encountered it. To God be the glory.

    Fast forward to late 2005. My job with Zondervan had just been eliminated, but the upside was that I now had the time to edit Rob’s new book The Liberator, a fantastic harmony of Matthew, Mark and Luke in his street language. And then the joyous news that Rob and Sandra were expecting their second child – wow and hooray! But then Rob’s email with the gut-wrenching news that the cancer was back. We all were shattered. Oh Lord, why?

    For anyone in our business, and especially for me as his editor, Rob was a dream author. Creative, funny – and his books sold by the boatload. Even when he was frustrated he was still gracious. He was always funny, and I would hoot with laughter during our phone calls, whether we were discussing swear words, his latest show, or the phrasing of Jesus’ commands. We were both chuffed to be paid to write and edit the Bible – how cool is that?

    But of course Rob was so much more than an author, what some might think as a commodity who puts together a product to be packaged, marketed and sold. He was a flesh-and-blood human being who loved his family and friends, who followed the Creator as he brought forth words of life and grace into the lives of so many.

    So as we think about the life of Rob Lacey, perhaps we can take a minute to remember the flesh-and-blood people behind the books, music and films that we create, market and sell. Who are they? What sweat, blood and tears goes into the making of their projects? And as we think about the fragility of life, maybe we can take a moment to value the people we work with and those whom we love.

    Rob, in your words, halle-blinkin’-lujah anyway. We miss you desperately. We ache for and with Sandra and your children. We’re down here in a world of cancers and decay, but you have a new body that will never wear out. No doubt you are using it relentlessly to entertain Jesus and the angels. How we wish we could be watching that heavenly performance. You’re living out Psalm 30:11:

    You turned my tears to cheers,
    My moping, through coping and on into dancing.
    You made me take off my funeral gear,
    And suddenly vibrant colours appear.
    (the word on the street)

  • When life changes in a moment… why?

    A couple of weeks ago I posted about my family’s near accident, giving thanks that they walked away unscathed. The post has been in the back of my mind as I think about mothers losing children through car accidents or disease; about sisters living life without their brothers; about families disrupted from a cycle of seemingly neverending surgeries. Just last night I heard about a friend who seems to be following Job’s journey rather too closely lately. Battles at his church left him bruised but not broken; disease left him scarred but not out for the count; now there’s another ghastly wrinkle I don’t even want to hint at it. Why, God?

    WhyIt just doesn’t seem fair. Sometimes we witness what appears to be a miracle of saving grace, but at other times the split second matters and life changes in an instant, ushering in tears, anguish, questions, and pain. Does God intervene in the one instant yet hold back his hand at the other? If we say that he’s involved in those miracles, does that mean he’s also involved in the accidents and disease and personal losses?

    I saw a friend over the summer whose sibling died a few months ago, in the prime of her life. When I questioned him whether he asks the “why” questions, he said he didn’t. He believes in the fall of the world, and so why are we surprised when bad stuff happens? The world is not as God made it; sin entered in and so people die and governments are corrupt and people fail each other and lie, cheat, and steal.

    I believe that, but if it was my sister dying, I’m guessing I would ask why. Yet I think of another friend whose spouse and child died in the space of a decade, and who faced/faces physical challenges with another child. When talking about her journey and God, she said, “Where else do I have to go but to him?”

    That comment made me stop and ponder.

    One who thought about the why’s and why nots died a decade ago, Rob Lacey. I still miss him. I called him my “dream author,” for he delivered great content on time that sold. And he was just such fun to work with (on The Word on the Street and The Liberator). We talked about his next book as “the health story.” But we didn’t know then that his wife Sandra and friend Steve would be writing it after he went to perform in glory.

    Rob with his lovely colleague Elin Kelly, signing books at Spring Harvest, 2004
    Rob with his lovely colleague Elin Kelly, signing books at Spring Harvest, 2004

    Rob’s poem “Why Me?” comes on page 196 of their book, People Like Us, and I include it here with Sandra Harnisch-Lacey’s gracious permission. He wrote it after he had an all-clear of no cancer in October 2002. (None of us knew that the cancer would come back three years later.)

     

    Why Me?

     
    Thanks, Emmanuel. Thank God with us. I’m well!
     
    But why me? Not him? Why me? Not them?
     
    It’s not ’cos I memorised the whole of Job.
    O wore an anointed prayer shawl.
    Or a special hospital robe.
    It’s not ’cos we cried ‘Mercy’! a million times.
    It’s not ’cos I wrote a hundred prayers with rhymes.
    It’s not ’cos my wife deserves me.
    Puts the sign ‘reserved’ on me.
    It’s not ’cos my son needs me.
    Twin tower workers were parents too.
    It’s not ’cos we’ve hung on.
    It’s just that God pulled us through.
     
    So is it ‘because I’m worth it’?
    Well, I am, I’m worth everything to God.
    But so was Jacqueline du Pré,
    So was Eva Cassidy.
     
    So why? And when?
    Was it already planned right back then?
    Or did God shuffle and shift?
    And watch all our prayers lift up past his eyes?
    And did he hear our cries?
    And did they all add up to Abraham- or Moses-size?
    When they dared to do diplomacy with God?
    Did we, together, negotiate with God?
    We’ll never see the subplots,
    The alternative scenes,
    Until we get to heaven, read the script
    And work out what it means.
    There’s no recipe for what God gives free.
    There’s no ace to play for grace.
     
    It’s not that I toughed it out with cameras up my nether regions,
    Tubes pushed through my back,
    Needles in my failing veins,
    Platinum pumped through every track.
    It’s none of that.
    It’s not that I kept a certain attitude,
    When interviewed.
    I’m no more clued than you.
    I could’ve interceded for the lion with my name on it,
    Been compliant with my giant.
    I could’ve driven into Jerusalem on a clapped-out Robin Reliant.
    And still, it might have been,
    That I would die.
    And we might have no idea why.
    Would that have been God’s will?
    Or is it God’s plan never to fill an empty grave?
    Or does He save each one of us?
    So how come some still die?
    And why this?
    Why that?
    And with answers so shy
    What’s the point in asking ‘why’?
     
    So I won’t try to work out why.
    I won’t sweat to work it through.
    For now, Rob, just face it,
    God’s mercy is focused down on you.
    So leave your questions lying there
    You might pick them up again.
    Leave your lopsided, left heavy, rational, rigorous brain
    Just give God his fame.
    The always different, ever the same.
    Live up your voice and yell…
    Thank Emmanuel, thank God with us. I’m well.

    Rob Lacey, October 2002

     

    With Rob, I’ll put the “why’s” aside and focus on God’s great mercy, which he pours out on our lives, day by day. Sometimes he allows bad stuff to happen, but he never stops loving us or rooting for us.

    With Rob, I’ll give God his fame, the One who is always different but ever the same.

    How about you?