Today my book-baby is born, and I arrive at the day grateful, exhausted, and excited – just like many other parents. What a joy it is to share with you a message that has been long growing within me, from the years of leading retreats and through immersing myself in the field of Christian spirituality with my master’s degree.
The book is filled with ways to pray – not only the seven time-tested practices that I outline in the seven chapters, but many hands-on exercises within the chapters themselves. So that you can try them out, whether you’re new to the way of praying or consider yourself a seasoned pray-er.
To buy a copy of the book, click here for links to purchase in the UK, the States, and Australia.
Want to use the book with a group? We’ve got that covered for you. Following are two options to help you lead a small group through the material:
The Home Group site features videos of me interviewing seven amazing people who know a thing or two about prayer. The videos are about 18-30 minutes long, and in many of them the interviewee leads us in the prayer practice. You’ll also find background reading and discussion starters. (I think you’ll benefit from these videos if you want watch on your own as well.)
Want something shorter? Sign up to The Big Church Read where you can access seven videos of me introducing each chapter, with each video about five minutes each. You’ll also have access to a leader’s guide with suggested prayer activities and discussion questions. They are also offering bulk discounts on the book.
No need for a video component? Here’s the leader’s guide, with an outline of each session with prayer exercises and questions for discussion. Want to read the introduction and first chapter? Here’s the British version and the American.
How about the free Youversion 7 days devotional journey? You can download that here. Some inspirational quotations, ready to share on social media? That’s here.
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Thanks for considering journeying with me in prayer. I’m confident that God will be delighted to hear from you.
Below, some images from our launch at church on 12 September 2021.
Welcome to a new series on prayer! As I launch my book 7 Ways to Pray, I’m delighted to share with you each week a blogpost from someone special. One of the things I love about prayer is that we’re all so different and thus enjoy different ways to pray. Shining the spotlight on the experiences of others will be a rich and encouraging experience, as you’ll see from this first post.
Who better to kick off the series than my editors? I have a huge respect for this breed of individual – having been one previously, I know how fragile the author ego can be, for instance. They bring an added extra to book projects, and the fingerprints of Dave Zimmerman, my US editor, and Elizabeth Neep, my UK one, are all over this project in fantastic ways. Today we hear from Dave – I challenge you not to chuckle (and then ponder deeply) – and next week we’ll hear from Elizabeth. Enjoy!
Not every editor gets to work for a Big Five publisher (or Big Four these days, as some entities are too big to fail but not too big to be absorbed into something bigger). Not all of us can take the company jet to an author lunch, and order the jumbo shrimp instead of the shrimpy shrimp, and then fly back to the Big Apple to ring the bell at an IPO or accompany their author to a taping of The View. No, some of us do our editing in relative quietude, at the desks of nonprofits, serving as the metaphorical sous-chefs to our authors as they bake the metaphorical bread of their books for us to cast onto the metaphorical waters of the book selling marketplace, with hopes of many happy returns (and very few sad ones).
Some of us on that end of the editorial spectrum, it should be said, occasionally do get to spend time in a castle. I can’t speak for my colleague Elizabeth Neep, Amy’s British editor for 7 Ways to Pray (although being in England she’s statistically more likely than I to drive past a castle on her commute). But drive past a castle on my commute I do, because tucked away on the front range of the Rocky Mountains of southern Colorado is the Glen Eyrie Castle and Conference Center, which, like NavPress, is a ministry of The Navigators. And every September that castle is opened to myself and my colleagues at The Navigators HQ for a day of prayer.
Dave and a colleague at the Glen Eyrie Castle and Conference Center. Photo by Kara Zimmerman.
We pray for the various ministries of The Navigators. We pray for unity among our diverse and distributed staff. We pray for the needs of our world and our nation and for the resiliency of our shared mission. And we end our day by dispersing into extended periods of time alone with God.
On one such day of prayer I decided I would take a hike as high into the hills as my little legs and delicate deck shoes would take me. I found a trail and kept on going, chatting with God as I went. The higher I went the thinner the air got, and the sparser the foliage. Eventually the trail leveled off relatively high against the tree line, and I decided to sit a bit and journal.
I am not a natural pray-er. Amy’s book has been very good for me in that way. I need prompts and practices to latch onto, because otherwise my mind wanders and my prayers turn to mutters.
On occasions like this day of prayer, however, I’m a little better able to focus. Prayer is the point of the day, and our program has primed my pump. I have lots of thoughts, but those thoughts are mostly turned toward God, thanks to the careful curation of my colleagues.
Photo credit: Kara Zimmerman
So there I found myself, at the top of a trail, pump primed, a journal in one hand and a pen in the other. I offered a moment of consecration and commenced to drafting a dialogue with God. It was pretty impressive if I do say so myself: earthy but elegant, pious but authentic. I was in some kind of zone.
Then I got restless, so I started walking again, taking joy in the day. I had a thought and I decided to share it with God as I walked. “You know what would make this time of prayer perfect?” I offered. “I would love to see some wildlife.”
It’s worth noting here that seeing wildlife on the grounds of the Glen Eyrie Castle and Conference Center is not at all uncommon. We are, after all, up against the Rockies, surrounded by mule deer and bobcats and bears and bighorn sheep. This was not, in my pious mind, an extravagant request.
Out of the corner of my eye I caught a glimpse of movement. I turned my head and found myself face to face with a dragonfly.
I turned to my left and saw a squirrel. I turned to my right and saw a bird.
I turned my attention back to God. “That’s not what I meant.”
“I know,” I believe God said to me in that moment. “I don’t care.”
It can seem like a faith crisis to hear the voice of God tell you he doesn’t care about what you want. I don’t know about you, but I have been steeped for some time in popular theologies that suggest God is actually preoccupied with what we want. The ways that we so often pray reflect that assumption: We list our requests or register our complaints or otherwise offer God a guided tour through our drama.
That’s one reason why books on prayer abound, why books like Amy’s are so important. As natural and primal as talking to God is, what constitutes a meaningful conversation with God can easily get all jumbled up in our heads. We need guidance. We need a mix of confidence and humility. We need to think about what prayer is. And we need to get over ourselves a little.
On that day of prayer I had gotten a bit lofty. I needed to return to earth. In his grace, God gave me a lift.
When I heard God say he didn’t care about my request, I pictured him smiling as he said it. I don’t have a mental image of what God looks like, for the record, any more than I heard an audible voice deliver me that message. But God made himself manifest to me in that lofty space, during that consecrated time, and I believe he conveyed clearly to me that (1) he was for me and (2) I could maybe take things down a notch.
I envisioned myself sharing a chuckle with God, remembering that I am made of the dust of the earth, like the grass that inevitably withers—but also remembering that it was God himself who breathed life into me, and that he made me, and you, a little lower than the angels, in his own image and likeness.
I ended my day of prayer shortly after I shared that laugh with the God of the universe. I walked back down the hill to the parking lot of the Glen Eyrie Castle and Conference Center, hopped in my car, and drove home. And I have remembered that divine encounter ever since.
David Zimmerman is Publisher of NavPress, the publishing arm of The Navigators. He started his editorial career at InterVarsity Press. His Twitter bio says that he’s a “Middle aged middle child in middle management. I work as a publisher of Christian nonfiction. I’m interested in books, music, work, and everyday life.” Find him at Twitter.
Find out more about 7 Ways to Prayhere, including how to pre-order in the US, UK, and Australia.
Praying with the Bible roots us deeply in God’s word. This is the first topic—the first way to pray—I engage with in my forthcoming book, 7 Ways to Pray. Here’s an exercise of praying with the Bible through a text from Paul’s letter to the Colossians. It’s rich with meaning and one that Dallas Willard recommended that we memorize. I’ve started memorizing it and got about halfway through before I’ve stalled. Maybe that’s something I could pick up again!
Why not take some time to pray through this text, personalizing it and examining it this way and that. You might want to do this over several days. The text appears below in the NIV, and underneath it, I’ve added some of my own prayers based on it.
1 Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. 2 Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. 3 For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God. 4 When Christ, who is your life, appears, then you also will appear with him in glory.
5 Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. 6 Because of these, the wrath of God is coming.7 You used to walk in these ways, in the life you once lived. 8 But now you must also rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips. 9 Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices 10 and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator.11 Here there is no Gentile or Jew, circumcised or uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave or free, but Christ is all, and is in all.
12 Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. 13 Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14 And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.
15 Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. 16 Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts. 17 And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.
Lord, I come to you with thankfulness for how you’ve created me. I praise you for your faithfulness and love. Come now through your Holy Spirit and help me to pray. Thank you for your word, which gives me life and truth. Make it come alive to me, that I might know you better and share your love more faithfully.
Lord God, I ask that you’d help me to set my heart on you. Not, Lord, on earthly things. It’s so easy to look at the things of this earth and get bogged down in them. Or even to glory in them, for you have made them with such care and beauty. But you are there, Christ, seated at the right hand of God. You call me to think on heavenly things. To know that this earth is not all that there is. I’m so grateful that through your Spirit I’ve died to my old self, and my life is now hidden with Christ in God. And I know that when Christ comes, who is my life, then I’ll appear with him in glory. Alleluia!
Help me put to death whatever belongs to my earthly nature – sexual immorality, lust, greed. These actions are idolatry, and because of them, I know the wrath of God will come. I say with Paul that I used to walk in these ways in the life I once lived. But now I know that I must rid myself of all such things as anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from my lips. Lord, these are things that come easily to me, and I repent and say sorry for the ways I let my mouth take over. For the ways I rage and lose my temper. Forgive me please. I know too that I shouldn’t lie to anyone else, for I’ve taken off my old self with its practices and have put on the new self, which you renew in knowledge in the image of you, God, my creator. There’s no division between people for Christ is all, and is in all. No division! No divide based on class or race. No inner group or newbies. Christ is all and is in all. Christ is all!
I know therefore that as God’s chosen person, one who is holy and dearly loved, I put on the clothes of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. I put these on, Lord. I put on the cloak of compassion, which you will help to ooze out of me when I see someone in need or hurting. The hat of kindness, that I might notice others instead of being wrapped up in myself. The sweater of humility, that I might be willing to give of myself to others, seeing them as your daughters and sons. The trousers of patience – please, I pray, slow down my eager legs. The gloves of gentleness, to spread your loving touch.
Help me to forgive as you’ve forgiven me. And over all of these virtues, I clothe myself in your love. I shower in love. I wrap myself in love. You are love and you fill me with love. Bind me together with my fellow sisters and brothers in perfect unity.
Let the peace of Christ rule in my heart, for you’ve called me to peace. I am thankful, Lord, for the amazing ways you’ve worked in my heart and mind.
Let your message, Christ, dwell among us richly today. Help me to teach and admonish others in your name, with wisdom, through gratitude and song. Help me to do whatever I do in your word and deed, all in the name of Jesus Christ, giving thanks to you.
